Title | : | How To Stay Motivated - The Locus Rule |
Lasting | : | 5.48 |
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Views | : | 8,8 jt |
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This was helpful Thank you 😊 Comment from : Maryjane Chibuike |
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It always hurts a lot when you work really hard for something, and people say you are talented ESPECIALLY when, seeing how well you are doing, they give up doing it themselves Comment from : Captain Squiggles |
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Helpful and motivating brI must say thanks for your help ❤ Comment from : Aida |
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Ok, now I'm not sure if i lack motivation or if I'm just having executive dysfunction??? Comment from : Lumi Nariel |
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I think it really make sense When I have an external locus of focus, I am not trying to move myself, right? Of course I am not motivated, of course I am not improving! What a simple common error Comment from : Eugene T |
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Interal fools of fake happiness Comment from : Putrefrye imaginativallae |
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I need motivation to even watch this video Comment from : ismahan ttc |
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Best motivation formula Comment from : Banu Vanithi |
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03:30 Comment from : my_youtube |
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I kinda searched for this video on a whim to try and work out a balance of hard work and such Like- I want to achieve things but I know I should take breaks to not burn outbrbrHonestly didn't expect to learn anything from searching this, and this wasn't 100 what I was searching for but it actually clicked with me quite a bit and I feel like I can change some mindsets I've had in the past Comment from : Username not taken |
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What happens when you metaphysically realize that free will is an illusion? Comment from : epicbehavior |
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I see Comment from : Tengai |
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The beautifulness of studying psychology is that videos like that will not destroy youbrThis advice is very correct for some personalities, and it is very wrong for othersbrFor me this is a terrible advice ,I am trying to confence myself all the times that I don't have control over everything happening as this reduce my anxiety and increase my productivity Comment from : marwa said |
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I see, thank you man, that is very helpful highlyappreciated😁✌💜 Comment from : ___Hênt@îd@îzûkê___ |
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Positive feedback to what you have done Comment from : Sean |
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Just what I needed! 😅 Comment from : Neil Pinto |
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Just like workout eh? First you get inspiration and top it off with motivation And after like 1 and a half month you'll end up with you and your discipline against the world Comment from : Pael Jewlian |
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The only path to success is discipline Either motivation or talent, they can carry you just so far Comment from : SS A |
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Thank you Comment from : Elegant Colleen |
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Well, may I ask how can we appreciate ourselves? I mean I've been called smart all my life to call myself working hard (I literally don't work hard I just work smart, and idk how to appreciate myself for working smart ) Comment from : Zaba Maryam |
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YES , I always had this terrible believe when I was younger, that people who study hard are not smart enough, but as I get older and school starts to get harder , it just feels so wrong to study so I always end up procrastinating , and now I get 80s instead of 90s and I feel so stupid, people always tell me I'm smart and I would be the first if study and I just feel worst and worst about myself, thank you for this video it really opened my eyes on what was the problem Comment from : lemon |
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This is so real I always was that kid who would get the highest scores in exams and assignments without studying much I even got the highest score in a state test of my entire school and one of the highest in the whole countrybrbrI could choose any career in any college I wanted and I would certainly get a scholarship if I askedbrbrSeeing how everything was pretty much handed to me in a silver plate, I just accepted the first college who called me and didn't even consider any other option Now that I'm in the 4th semester of my career, I absolutely regret joining the university I did, I feel frustrated and that I was played, but now I see that I played myselfbrbrAlways work as hard as you can even for the things that seem unimportant, for every single little thing will eventually have some point to it Comment from : DJRH |
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This This hit a point on me😢 Glad i find this vid I'm 1 of the "smart/gifted" kid, now i need to change myself Workhard is the key Comment from : Kiena |
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Whoever is watching this comment Your success is certain, nothing comes in your way Stay focused and deciplined ❤❤❤❤ Comment from : Rise And Thrive |
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Absolutely interesting to how they conducted the experiment Comment from : MonkeyD_Luthy |
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This vídeo help me a lot, im aways been considered a genius prodigy by friends, teachers and family I Was struggling with lack of motivation, i used to quit in all activities when things got tough, this video opened my eyes, thank you Comment from : Glamietto |
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I have faced similar condition now I have lost motivation to do anything Comment from : Sangam |
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I want to learn and I dont know where to get the learning place Comment from : random world1982 |
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Because I watch this videobrI am going to stay motivated Comment from : Abdul Vadood Shaikh |
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so what i'm getting is life is about what you believe you can do not who you believe you are Comment from : Peneya |
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as one man once sayed "You Should Motivate Yourself Now!"-Vergil from the hit game dmc Comment from : im just a gamer |
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Im putting this in my future parenting rulebook Comment from : FATALISH |
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This was really eye opening My dad use to tell me that he had to work twice as hard as his "gifted" classmates in order to keep up, that he really wish things came as easy to him as it did to his peers Fast forward, my dad built a very successful company, worked for himself, became a multimillionaire, and told me some of his "gifted" classmates didn't do much with their lives Comment from : El Mitch |
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I have an "Internal locus of control" and yet I lack motivation to do anything at all Comment from : Redennce |
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3:05 So you would rather the workers blame themselves for bad days? 💀 brIt's one thing to maintain motivation, and it's another to acknowledge some factors are out of your control All stuff like that does is contribute to a shitty work environment Comment from : Sarah |
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This is the reason our prodigy hare lost the race to that tortoise I feel grieved our master ancestor didn't knew about this! Comment from : Chirag Mahal |
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thank you Comment from : Milan Chaudhary |
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“Where’s your motivation?” -vergil Comment from : SpaceGoji54 |
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Thank you so much, I learnt about locus rule Comment from : Nghĩa Chí |
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That’s a beautiful professor Comment from : Dabman / Plays |
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Where's your motivation? Comment from : Psep Si |
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I am a weak push over who is used and manipulated day after day for other people's entertainment by everything and everyone around me I no longer want to come last in everyone's priorities
brI don't want to be forgotten anymore I don't want to be rejected anymore by people who are better than me I'm too shy and afraid to say what i need and want to do since I've been placing other peoples interests above my own for my entire life Comment from : DRIPZ |
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Appreciate urself for ur hardwork Comment from : Pure Cartoons |
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the thing is that im told im smart, but i dont believe it, i used to be depressive, now i just have very low self esteem Comment from : The monke society |
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Wow now I see where the problem is iam in control of my destiny Comment from : Likumbi Kasanga |
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I completely agree with the concept being talked about in this video But I noticed that the goal discussed herewas a direct goal or the situation here was direct: that is(in the first case) the kids did hardwork and achieved their goalhere hardwork was directly proportional to success But in real life what about working for those goals where hardwork is not directly proportional to success: It happens sometimes that you have put a lot of hardwork in something, put your 100 but still failed or there is only a long term Success and not a short term success: that is you are putting efforts but have no idea whether it is constructive and heading you towards your goal or you are just wasting time/efforts and are in the wrong pathwayyou doubt yourselfwhether your efforts are getting counted or not so in such a situation, how to tackle the feeling of getting overwhelmedand stay motivated?I hope I will get an answer because right now This is a thing that I can't tackle Comment from : phool singh |
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what can we learn from this study? answer: nothing adults are different than spoiled school kids Comment from : Timothy Berg |
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Wow as a "gifted and talented" kidI'm so called out😭😭 TIME TO BE SMART AND HARDWORKING >:D Comment from : ♡ ᴱᴺ⁻JIA!! |
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I find the biggest motivator to be doing the dishes in the morning It's a low level physical activity that wakes you up You have something in the checked off column after only 15 minutes of being awake, and yes, it's your internal locus of something you can control Comment from : The Book Was Better |
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I was told that I'm a retard and look at how I turned out, working my hardest for the highest score and still only making through with the bare minimum grade to pass I know working hard is the key to control my life but it don't really make sense when it's in and out of control at the same time Comment from : 3 00 |
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Seen another comment (for some reason i cant reply to it) that said:br "so this is why all the "gifted and talented" kids are all depressed now" brbrMy response to that: "gifted and talented kids" 90 of the time is just code for (mostly late diagnosed) autistic kids (Speaking from experience) And YES! Its called masking When you grow up as "the gifted kid" youre held to an unobtainable goal of success Always pushing yourself harder to meet this goal leaving you burnt out, and this can look like depression if you dont know what youre going through or if youre not diagnosed autistic I had several "professionals" say i had depression and anxiety but i was really just undiagnosed autistic going through a bad burnout that lasted for YEARS! brbrbrBe gentle, and take care of yourselfs out there If this resinates with you might wanna do some research (dont listen to autism speaks thats a whole new can of worms im not trying to get into)brI didnt get diagnosed until I was 19 years old Comment from : PoptartDraws |
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I faced this problem during corona pandemic, got really demotivated and this hurt my performance in college Nevertheless, I am learning about solving problems , challenging myself and trying to build discipline and work ethic Comment from : Rejoan Bary |
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''Genius are nor borne they are made'' Comment from : 𝙸𝙸𝚃 𝙱𝚎𝚒𝚗𝚐 |
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i am hindi medium and i can not understand it properly Comment from : Going to rock |
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Just don't let this mindset allow you to be manipulated into being overworked and underpaid Comment from : Ro Ro |
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Excellent Video Your contect is simply awesome Thank you for educating us Comment from : Intersales Communicaiton - Muhammad Tayyab |
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Grrrr, darn parents, always saying I'm smart Don't you know that's ruining my motivation? Comment from : Funny YouTube things |
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at the start it basically busted the "Work smarter not harder" saying Comment from : TreeAdam |
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You just broke open a locked door in my brain Comment from : Alle ssgg |
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Thanks for the upload!!!! Comment from : CeCe |
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Thank you for Vietnamese subs Comment from : Én Vũ |
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Now, that explains why Comment from : ashley tries to vlog |
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I AM THE STORM THAT IS APROOCHING, PREVOOOKING, BLACK CLOUDS ANIALLATION, I AM THE CLAIMER OF MY NAAAAME, BORN IN FLAME, I HAVE BEEN BLESSED MY FAMILY CREST IS A DEMOB OF DEATH Comment from : T Rex animations inc |
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Tell these things to these employees Comment from : Ayush Jha |
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Thanks for this I totally have an outside locust view currently…I’m 39 and have always believed the system we all live by is just not for me…but I barely do anything anymore with reward for hard work I put in so today ima clean up our place and take my 4 year old son and do a hard skateboard trick that I’ve never done and hopefully this will start to put me on the right path to getting back to true happiness Comment from : John Paxton |
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to the person who will read this, I know you're doing your best to be the best version of yourself Keep going, I'm proud of you🤗 Comment from : HustleToSuccess |
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The irony of this comments section is that all the "gifted kids" now have a new external factor to blame Comment from : AntOnADog |
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never in my life again LMFAO yeah ok bud Comment from : HydroCosmo |
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wow really appreciate that, this video helps me a lot, thank you <3 Comment from : Ngoc Khanh |
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Everything starts from homeincluding the drive and motivation Comment from : Garnet S |
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Worst part about it, is that people who would call you gifted or "just smart" are people who gave up with trying to be anything in life Comment from : Tidan |
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this channel is just so accurate and a savior! Comment from : Anika fatima |
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This will really help me thank you! Comment from : Agnesa Galanova |
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I understand why the mafias are actually genius! Comment from : MIQDAD |
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No I can’t agree,if a normal kid was motivated to keep up why aren’t you motivating the smarter kids? Comment from : Animated Channel |
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b“Back in my day, we just called that Spiral Power”/b Comment from : Zpectre |
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Imagine showing this video to an innocent man on death row Comment from : Aurora Johnson |
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You absolutely have control over the work you do! (You do not however have any control over how much your work is exploited) Comment from : Aurora Johnson |
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As someone who has had an external locus for a bit, this helped me assess my situation a lot Comment from : Rezolved |
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omg this is so relatable Comment from : Lemonita347 |
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My wife and I felt like we were always cleaning the house on the weekends and it was a real drag and hard to get motivated My friend gave me an idea and it's been really great for the past few weeks We wrote down all the areas of the house on a slip of paper and put them in a cup Every weekday after work we pull a piece of paper and spend 30 minutes cleaning that area together Just after two weeks we were both in better moods, enjoying the fruits of our labor, and enjoying spending Saturdays together (not cleaning lol) Comment from : A E |
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Half of the kids were traumatized for life after this experiment Comment from : Meera |
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Kaya kapag sinasabi nilang matalino ako dahil may karangalan ako, sinasabi ko lang na masipag ako Totoo naman <: Hindi naman magiging matalino ang isa kung hindi siya nagsikap na mag-aral Comment from : CLARK JOSHUA MANGUNE |
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Wow this is something I learned in my Organizational Behavior class Comment from : Harsha M |
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Internal Locus of control means often its Because you worked hard rather than just you were smart, the first is best for motivation Comment from : 🌕Murad Bagirov🌞 |
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Confirm, depressed “oh you’re smarter than average” guy here Comment from : AIKEN_Sk |
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I barely do anything I am very dismotivated I knew I was a genius and well this is nothing new to me That is why I am not very motivated, simply because my intelligence is just too much Comment from : Andre Avdalyan |
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The issue is that the world (humans) actually kinda is conspiring against itself So a lot of the time its hard to find a reason Comment from : AddTomatoes |
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Its too fast to follow can you be little slow😊 Comment from : Get Motivated by Harish |
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This is cool and allbrbrbut can you do a video onbrbrI don't know how to say thisbrbrI can discipline myself sure, I can say I'm doing this for my future selfbrbrWhat future? my future self will still be doing the same things, where is this "paradise life" I look ahead for? "live to have fun" what fun? what am I doing, why do I want to live?brbrwhat am I trying to better myself for? Comment from : alaIKE |
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Can parents be a locus? Comment from : pota50 |
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After i watched this video i got motivated Comment from : υπρον |
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Sometimes it's the internal that we feel we can't control Comment from : Toni |
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