Title | : | Hold On, Let Me Explain Why I REFUSE to HAVE KIDS! | Top 10 Reasons |
Lasting | : | 14.21 |
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Views | : | 82 rb |
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I agree 💯 Comment from : Busi Zama |
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As a Black guy I am not having a kid that will be discriminated against Comment from : The Nicest Guy 27 |
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The planet needs more people who think like you Comment from : Fairy |
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Whenever I hear someone complain how there will be a population collapse in the future because people are refusing to have children, all I can think is—chances are—they’re one of the many people who turned this world into one not fit for children Comment from : Rick Haydn Horst |
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One big reason I don’t want kids is because I am PETRIFIED of being pregnant I can barely take care of myself on some days, let alone 2 people!!! No way in HELL am I carrying a fetus to full term Such a shame that women like me are constantly blocked from sterilization treatment if we don’t have kids— and even if we do, we’re still expected to have more! Comment from : spicyykels |
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If life on earth was about, streets of gold, milk and honey, lions frolicking with the lambs, running and not falling down, I would grab the first lady that was willing to have a child and have as many as I could and happily enjoy lifebrbrUnfortunately, it's not as pretty Life is a struggle from the cradle to the gravebrbrIf I don't even like the troublesome world that I am living in, why would I want to bring other so called, "loved ones" into the same place that I don't likebrbrWhat would I be bringing them here to do? brbrTo endure the hardship until death releases me from this miserybrbrNo thanks!brbrI'll live the short life that I have left as best as I can without the trauma of screaming children and their mother's and hope not to come this way againbrbrCheers to the best child free life Comment from : Mihiga |
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Dear Timothy, You're right on target here If I were 20 or 25 today, I'd probably take your child-free life to heart But I'm not At 75, I reflect on the past sometimes My 2 children, one boy and one girl, are doing just fine - without children of their own Both are in long term marriages, in their mid to late 30's, college loans paid off They travel whenever they wish and do what they want Lots of time, and money in the bank Neither of them are wealthy but they're a whole lot better off in so many ways I could have produced a serial killer - the bad seed, as you said But I didn't Dumb luck Comment from : Eric Joseph |
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Aww this video made me realize I love being a parent Nothing you listed are real issues unless you #1 already dont want kids which is FINE! i was team no kids😂 Most issues are made by the adult not the child The parents just use the child as a scapegoat Comment from : Tiana Tiana |
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OMG I laughed a lot hearing you complaining Lol “I don’t know! Just google it” Comment from : Sama DA |
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i laughed at 10 because i was thinking the samebri might bring a new hilter to this world Comment from : Teolidus |
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im 33 and im seeing my self with no kidsbrim confused why other people got problems with jt Comment from : Teolidus |
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perfectly valid reasons by the way! They are way too expensive but the main reason I choose to not have kids is that I don't want to say or do the wrong thing and have them effected by that So it's a bit selfish but selfless too pedophobia is what it's called I think But also I don't want them to experience poverty, sickness disease, corrupt society, violence of other people, disability, depression, fear, worry, doubt and other troubling emotions I don't think I have the right skills temperance, personality, tolerance other other beneficial traits to help them with any of that I'm happier without responsibility or teaching them them what little I know Lets just face it they are messy, noisy, they misbehave, don't pay attention or don't listen My kid would be just as stubborn as I am and I don't want that hassle either Also one less person polluting with their waste, and one less person in the world, which lets all admit that we are overpopulated ( 8 billion is way too many people) I don't hate kids, I just don't want to be around them or have any of my own But they are the future of our humanity Less drama, less stress and obligation, for me and them It's called boundaries and knowing ones own limitations I'm 38 and perfectly fine without children, continuing my views and current lifestyle I'd rather have dogs or cats Comment from : Sound Healing by Gene |
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Love this ❤❤😂 I want to spend my life doing the things I want like travelling and enjoying new experiences And actually have the money to pay for them too I don't see how I can travel as regularly as I want to if I have to send my kids to school, be free only during vacation time and be responsible for literal human beings !! Being Childfree is a very recent choice for me but makes me feel so relieved and actually look forward to having a peaceful and fun life !! Comment from : ClearBlueSky |
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For one you're 75 man Comment from : joeydeeznutz |
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Sir, nicely put, couldn't agree more Excellent bullet points, pretty much same here Comment from : Jānis |
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You are hilarious Lol Comment from : Master63y |
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I love this 😂 Comment from : MrsGoddess |
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Especially in this DNA age and how far technology is I will definitely not bring black kid to this harsh cold world Illegal human and organ trafficking is rising epidemic and I believe black kids are the true victims Comment from : Abdulfatah Osman |
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I can relate 100 Comment from : Tio Olavo do Baralho |
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Hopefully u find a life partner that wants the same thing as you 👍 Comment from : nothing2lose |
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Kids are great to have them I have one and that’s enough Comment from : Abdulrahman Ahmed |
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I have kids but when i turn 40 il have 20yo Cant imagine starting over at 35 or 40 they strip your energy thats for sure Respect to those that chose not to have any Comment from : Thomas Marchant |
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This guy saved my life,i was suffering because nobody understand me that i also dont want kids and i am 32,this guy in video is my best friend for life! Comment from : Hobycnc Lovac |
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Adults don't make babies Babies make adults Comment from : The Dude |
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Man you had me crackin all the way up 😂😂😂 Comment from : Carolyn Merritt |
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All the rules! Comment from : MADD Art44 |
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You don't need kids to be happy It's more pain than joy When they hit their 30s they still got their hand in your pocket They only call you when they want something From my experience don't do it Don't do it 👎 Comment from : Marilyn Ross |
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Stupid zombies job Comment from : LIBERTY |
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So basically you’re a coward Comment from : bonekolekta |
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This video is hilarious!! 100 agree Comment from : Kudzai Tunduwani |
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4 The partner In all seriousness Comment from : Ahmed Lago |
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I'm 40 from portugal, not married and I never wanted kids for the same reasons Life is complicated Hugs from portugal👍🤟💯🇵🇹🇵🇹 Comment from : carlos melo |
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Smart decision👏👏👏 Comment from : GoodKarma |
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🤣🤣Chill bruh Comment from : DIDAMI |
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To say you don't want children is taking the easy option, your choice, but a rather selfish choice It's not the choice you make about having no children that parents judge the child free, but the negative attitude of child free around other peoples children in a public place and child friendly area We are all inherently selfish but parents make the sacrifice of putting the child before themselves out of love rather that duty where as the child free are selfish by nature, by definition!! They mostly think of themselves and have no concept of thinking of others where mothers are naturally maternal and giving Comment from : The Celtic Druid |
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😂😂😂 wait let me shock you i live in Uganda and i know 30 yr old women having kids with over 60 yr old men 😂😂😂 its the damnest thing and they convince me i should hv kids 😂😂😂 like the fuck Comment from : Fredah Wiwu |
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😂😂😂 i felt that "i dont do well with responsibility"i know I'd be a deadbeat mum, i swear i can not handle stressful situations, and kids are stress on steroids Comment from : Fredah Wiwu |
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Got another reason for ya, autism Rates are skyrocketing My brother has a nonverbal boy Basically that means you got a 4 year old for the rest of your life That is a hard life man Comment from : Brett |
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Right on bro Comment from : Embers Stark |
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Have someone by your death bed to share your memories or not up to you Comment from : Kerstin Powers |
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I'm gonna be THAT guy but who tf watches the WNBA 🤣 Comment from : 808s & Vibezzz |
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Think about it you are bringing them into a world 🌎 that is destructive, pollution,Mind control, Evil, illuminati place its kind of evil bringing kids into this War infested hell Comment from : Major Marion |
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I like this video and the man is on point with ALL his reasons I’m not a parent but I really should consider if I want to become a father myself I want to get married but whether I have kids is something to really consider about brbrWill my child be obedient? Will my child cause problems? Will my child be a genius? So many questions but there is definitely ONE CERTAINTY: NOT HAVING KIDS IS A PEACE OF MIND brbrNo need to worry about disobedience, unnecessary expenses or possible tragedies Comment from : Mohammed Yameen |
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I’m 24 I dated a female that’s 27 for a year, she had a 4 yr old son They f’d up my money & drove me crazy, my parents gave me good advice to move on & find someone around my age wo a rugrat 😂 Comment from : Ghetto Knowbodies |
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👑br🦁 Comment from : Sibusiso Loyd Dlamini |
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I knew from the time I was 15 that I didn’t want kids I felt bad for the ones being born into this world, and I still do Comment from : SpiritSoPoetic |
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I’m 42 and people are ALWAYS surprised 😮 at my age They easily think I’m in my late 20’s or early 30’s at the most… I’m pretty sure a BIG reason for that is the fact that I don’t have kids… Kids can be a Blessing for sure, but they do age people Comment from : Fleek Fit Caribbean // Hip-Hop Dance Workouts |
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Comment from : Fleek Fit Caribbean // Hip-Hop Dance Workouts |
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The single life is the only way to go, unless you’re a SIMP Comment from : Alex Pearson |
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😂😂😂Parent of two here You are hilarious and very introspective I love it!! br“Pretend one of them kids is my kid” 🤣🤣🤣 Comment from : MsQuantification |
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Having kids is probably one of the biggest scams our society promotes Most people with the kids are hella miserable Comment from : Terry-Ann Francis |
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No I disagree Children are the best! But I missed it Well, I am too old for it now I can live a fine life still but I think it would have been much richer WITH kids and not without them Comment from : J R |
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I’m 34, married and me and my wife don’t want kids It’s exactly what we want and life is amazing Comment from : Guil Dormeus |
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Im 33 still dont want any kids nor get married I dont think ill ever want to This video pretty much sums it up 👏🏼💯 Comment from : yamid garay |
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I want to live childless because they are expensive here in US, human species are not in danger if didn’t have child , I found something way more precious and meaningful to do than having child Comment from : tsongkhapa lama |
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I decided to be child free a few years back, and I agree with a lot of your reasons Another one for me is, it takes a village to raise children and I do not have that I'm not close with anyone on my mom OR dad's side of the family, so if anything happened to me I don't know WHO I'd be able to turn to for help Comment from : ThatChickKim |
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This man is hilarious 😂 Comment from : Amon Neequaye |
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Don't get me wrong, I love my kids, but I def envy this dude to an extent, mostly because of one of the reasons he mentioned You can love your kids more than anything and they'll just leave high and dry and forget about you when they move out Having kids more of a trap than anything nowadays Comment from : Mxl |
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I am with you 1000000000000 Comment from : Honorée Jennings |
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😄😄😄😄 Comment from : Marlene |
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I swear you kinda look like Denzel, Washington when you talk😂 but I agree with you kids aren’t easy especially in todays day n age Comment from : Angel |
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It is very tough to be able to adequately afford children now days Healthcare is a shady for profit system, god forbid that the child is born with a disability of any kind Second, most but not all women nowadays aren’t wife or mother material, and it would crush me if I couldn’t spend time with my child, and like you have said, child support is tough Comment from : Shane Boyington |
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6 & 7 are enough for me The world doesn’t need more kids If anything it needs more competent parents If I ever have an urge to raise a kid I can always adopt I don’t see any logical reason why the kid would need to have my own genes Comment from : Freedom Foremost |
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I could have a daughter and she could sell her body even online? My boy could turn into a girl or do every kind of drugs or even be born with a gazillion kinds of diseases? Im out of this lol May the ones who want to do it do a dozen times Comment from : kakuseisha25 |
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I'm want to try my best to be the best Uncle I can be Comment from : Zantique CHM |
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Im 30 and i have a plethora of reasons why i do not want kids "right now" Maybe when im 40 lol and that's testing it Im love my freedom, space, mental, money, and life is lifing right now!!! Comment from : Tee Tee |
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Reason number 6, lol! Comment from : Jonathon Earl |
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Good You should have a choice whether you or female Comment from : True Cropper |
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Thank you Leroy Leroy done used your child voucher haha Comment from : Arlyn |
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Omg the 9th point is so funny 🤣😆 but 100true I never thought that angle Comment from : Chal kabira |
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Absolutely good reasons! 💯 Comment from : ingenuity |
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Back in the day, I got into an argument with my mother and sister in law, and they shamed me for not wanting to be a mother This was when my husband and I were first married, and my sister in law had just had her first baby She gave me the speech about how she's carrying on her bloodline, how she sees her grandfather in her son, and how parenthood is so sacred and magical, and blah, blah, blah Fast forward to today, She's been married twice, and both men cheated on her and left her she has three kids who are living with my mother/father in law who are both retired, old, and decrepit Their house is always a mess They never get any peace and quiet My father in law is always looking for an excuse to get out of the house One of the kids ran away to live with his girlfriend and isn't going to school So now, my sister in law who is currently in jail for not being able to pay her taxes may be getting charged again because her oldest son won't go to school and no one can get a hold of him These aren't the only problems she's faced, but I'm not going to write a book on here Although part of me feels bad for them, I can't help but smile out of spite when I think of how they shamed me for not wanting to be a mom Sometimes, I really want to ask them"So, how's motherhood and grandparenting going for ya? Enjoying your sacred duty as a parent? 😏 Comment from : Brianna Morrison |
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This is gold! 🤣 I love your personality Unfortunately, I have always wanted a kid someday, but I completely agree with your points and think anyone not interested or in doubt should not have kids Comment from : Leah Guerrero |
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I’m a parent and this is hilarious 🤣… I totally agree Comment from : Segourney Savery |
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Took the words right out of my mind and mouth! EXACTLY!!!😉 Comment from : A Oreal |
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Great points given! I detect 100 facts!!! Comment from : Erica J The Mangavangelist |
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“ I don’t know! I don’t know!” I was weak from laughter when you said that about point #5🤣🤣😭 Comment from : Erica J The Mangavangelist |
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I feel the same way bro Comment from : MACHO MARKO |
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Men can have children in their entire life No need to rush and do it Comment from : Eman |
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It’s good you understand yourself enough to know you don’t want children I think naturally you want to have them but because of society, it’s just too hard in all aspects Comment from : Nicholas Torres |
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You are very cute And I realize that children are not for me I am 32 years old I can't face such a responsibility, I don't know how others do I'm a knowledge-oriented person, that's my passion, I'm not the kind of woman who cooks, washes, raises children No way That would make me sick I think there are people who can be parents and people who are not made for it It does not mean that some or others are better or worse No, we are different I'm glad I discovered you 😍 Comment from : Diana Diana |
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With all due respect the way you take about kids is like they are the pest I can imagine how was childhood to hate kids so much like they are some sort of virus Jeez Comment from : medusa |
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Everything is good until you have to retire or God forbid claiming disability who will support your monthly paycheck or your social security benefits when you retire those kids that you despise so much When you are like 70 and 80 if you live that long It will be them kids who work and paid taxes through his adult lifeand everybody thinks like you now a daystar problem will be in the long run And that is a problem a lot of countries are having now But in the other hand its better not to brings children to suffer neglect and tlc It's better be clear like you are and to know the huge responsibility that it is Comment from : medusa |
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Thank you so much for making this I love that I can hear the same reasons I have from a man Quite refreshing The only thing I didn't see eye to eye with you about is that all babies are beautiful They're not Some of them are ugly I think some of the parents know they have an ugly baby but they'll never admit it And some kids are downright horror shows And they're sticky and smelly and crazy Comment from : prudy67 |
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If you wona have kids Ask first yourself if you can afford them and give them most love an knowledge as posible Comment from : level90 |
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After all the babysitting jobs i've done, i'm definitely not having any kids lol Comment from : Bilal Rashad |
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This guy is funny Comment from : Jacked Giraffe |
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The reality is poverty, crime, wars, injustice, stress, high prices on everything, unemployment, homelessmess, indifference, cruelty, bad political decisions, fear of the future - and instinctly people do not want more problems and more stress, because the human society moves in a erong direction - too much of negative factors Comment from : Ana White |
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Climate change and we didn't ask to be born Comment from : Hurricane Megan |
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