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Societal Expectations and Inner Desires: The Complex Dynamics of Motivation

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I'll tell my kids do your best or try or try your best, you don't have to be the best or top of the class or have amazing grades, you can have from really good to good to average grades or whatever and it'll be cool Comment from : utilisateur utilisateur

I was the 2end girl😊 I was alone and as everything has been choosen for me by others I could never learn how to impose my opinion and choose Comment from : Yulia Grushevskaya

really really Really REALLY GOOD ONE! Comment from : Min Htin Kyaw

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I’m Tom Comment from : Simone Chèrie

I relate to Tom Comment from : Deepwaters724

This is great! Thanks for the video!brWhat application do you use for this? Comment from : vera nath

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I grew up by single parent and don't know about socity need Attitude, little bit connect with socity but lern from 💓 Still I grew by inner strength Comment from : sailesh y

why i feel like fit into both stories yet not lean on one side fully ? Comment from : ashwini kumar

Verbal praise that is not expected by the recipient improves motivation Material rewards do not Comment from : Glen C

That first quote their is brilliant, perfectly summing up the reasons why people work Comment from : Daniel Scott

How Extrinsic and Intrinsic Motivation are the same process brAlthough the metaphorical reality of need states and intrinsic and extrinsic motivation is accepted in personality psychology and allied disciplines such as social psychology and economics, in learning theory, it is not Indeed, modern neurologically grounded learning or incentive motivation theory has long abandoned concepts of need or drive, and unified theories of reinforcement of reward reject the bifurcation of motivation into intrinsic/extrinsic, operant/respondent, voluntary/involuntary processes in favor of single process models which can explain all behavior without loss brThe position is epitomized by the research of the distinguished learning theorist and affective neuroscientist Kent Berridge of the University of Michigan, whose article on reward learning is linked below Also linked below is my version of this article and its practical implications for a lay audience, reviewed and endorsed by Dr Berridge in its preface A precis of my argument is on pp 57-63 br‘A Mouse’s Tale’ Incentive motivation theory for a lay audience from the perspective of modern affective neuroscience wwwscribdcom/document/495438436/A-Mouse-s-Tale-a-practical-explanation-and-handbook-of-motivation-from-the-perspective-of-a-humble-creature brBerridge article on history of learning theory wwwscribdcom/document/447163649/Berridge-Reward-Learning-Incentives-and-Expectations brBerridge Lab, University of Michigan siteslsaumichedu/berridge-lab/ Comment from : AJ MARR

A balance of intrinsic and extrinsic motivation is definitely needed Comment from : Look Inside Creativity

I don't believe this individuals dont find task's either inherintly or intrinsically motivating, br brI think intrinsic motivators are more like Maslow's heirarchy of needs brMeanwhile extrinsic motivators provide value to the ones around you br brWhat happend is Tom completly disregards his psychological needs brdilludes himself into getting esteem from selfish tasks which only build softskills br brMira neglects her basic needs (mostly rest) and saftey needs (never feels secure) brpushing herself too far to please others thinking she can achieve anything she puts brher mind to br brThe idea that we acomplish tasks via intrinsic/extrinsic motivation is more like:br brTom sees somone that is great at something reciving external reward, believes brhe can get 'that good' He does that task irregardless of external motivation as brif he has reached that skill level: its as if he recived them rewards - giving him a feeling of brfaux self esteem However he neglects his psychological needs as noone actually showsbrhim love / gives him a sense of acomplishment Thinking when im 'X' good ill do thisbror that br brMira knows that people will reward her if she acomplishes x or y so she does all brshe can to execute it and for them to notice Sacrificing her basic needs for physilogicalbrneeds Thinking i can rest later ill be safe laterbrbrTom ends up selfish and mira ends up selflessbrSo if maybe we just make sure our basic needs brare met and we do all we can to enrich the lifes brof others in the left over time weyll be fine, meeting our full potential Comment from : Ethan

John Holloway here I been working with Shirley Clay and she been motivating me Comment from : John Holloway

As a new parent this was great Comment from : Thomas

It's like the nature of goalsbrIt's nice to have both mastery goals (aka the willingness to learn from an activity) and performance goals (aka the willingness to prove your ability) brAt the beginning i couldn't understand the importance of performance goals and the impact they have on our behavior, but i realized that we live in a society so our behavior is linked with our society in some way Comment from : ESC2009

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Can someone explain why and how money undermine motivation? I thought it boosts it How can one balance it if it truly undercuts motivation? Comment from : Himmat

I am tormented by both these motivation on alternative days and I am making no progress Comment from : Quote World

I was hoping they would end up together , and they DID! Comment from : Yuii Todoro

Mira is a good girl, Tom is a bad boy So says me, an Asian man Comment from : John Smith

Can we just appreciate the little story about Mira and Tom real quick? XD That was really cool Comment from : Cameron Sanchez

Thanks for the review Comment from : Glenn Zarmanov

if you learn do what you have to today , tomorrow you'll be able to do whatever and however you wantLEARN TO ENJOY LEARNING AND YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER BE BORINGSOCIETY IS JUST A GAME, TO TAKE YOUR ATTENTION OFF THE OBJECTIVE ATTENTION PAYS THOSE WHO PAY ATTENTIONnot tuition lmao Comment from : Steven Delgado

I am a lot Like Comment from : Warai English

My heart Comment from : Khatab Omar

When they got together🥺 Comment from : Mariam Elshayeb

PAYYYY YOUR GAD DAM EMPLOYEES SPROUTS Comment from : CJ

At the end of the video when it talks about positive feedback doing more than material reward, it's true You'll always remember a kind word or compliment freely given that you can look back and smile on ,but you'll always view a paycheck as a paycheck Comment from : Katelyn Peal

Its a balance of them, to be creative whilst understanding what society expects and also find what interests you Its not an either or situation, its more complicated than that Some people are more creative than others and some are more grounded than the rest Comment from : Mark Giblin

Wow, you're one video taught me more about my workout problems than a million workout motivation videos Comment from : Sinister1986

I deeply sympathize with Mira Comment from : Cricielle Ramirez

So now I realise I’m more extrinsically motivated in doing my physics and maths degree, because I needed to do well in it and get the good feedback to get my degree; but I can be intrinsically motivated to solve puzzles (including maths problems), and even more so in learning random facts (mostly about video games, board games, fandoms, train routes, etc) I’ll search this up by myself, even at the cost of my time that I needed to spend on my degreebr…which can be quite the issue, especially when I know I should fulfil my responsibility, but I’m more motivated in my interestsbrAlso it’s interesting to note that one might be more extrinsically motivated to do something than intrinsically motivated to once rewards are given and there are responsibilities to bear, which might be what happened to my degree subject for me One would start to do it for the reward instead of doing it out of pure interest, and when the reward’s reduced, so is the motivation Is it hard to find that “sweet spot” in the two? Comment from : Cappi Lau

Besides motivation being intrinsic or extrinsic, it call also be positive or negative Both negative intrinsic and negative extrinsic motivation can affect self-esteem In the case of Tom getting no feedback from his parents when younger, this is effectively negative motivation, for example There is a saying that goes "the beatings will stop when morale improves!" Comment from : William Fleming

Good Video Comment from : Brad Alexander

Oh my god I am Tom Comment from : Talisker

Mira is like me, and tom is like me, too Comment from : Zaki 🅥

Why be happy when you can be interesting?- Slavoj Zizek Comment from : Charles Dahmital

And thank you for all your efforts Comment from : satyam gupta

I really relate to Tom I spent a lot of time alone as a child playing with simple open ended toys But received little feedback on anything and didn’t socialise with other kids because my highly religious parents believed we needed to separate ourselves from society to not be influenced by "the world" I consider myself intelligent but struggle to fit into society and the things I do or enjoy seem weird to others I’m reasonably happy as an adult but I don’t care about other people unfortunately Comment from : Charlie Peterson

"Honest words of encouragement get us going While money or gifts undermines our inner drive" This sounds like the last job I worked where I didn't get a raise in two years while working 70 hour weeks Sprouts really nailed it You can put your metadata where the sun don't shine Comment from : William Serba

Both heart and society Comment from : Sakshi Roy

This video is so thought provoking but what can one do if they have somewhat grown up like Mira and are clueless about their interests and future? It's not like they have the same amount of time to explore and have Tom's childhood with some genuine feedback again Comment from : Kazuto K

Me : never been to school 😭😭😭brbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbr😜 Comment from : Joh G tv

21 years old tom is exactly me Comment from : Hassaan Khan

When asked what is the most difficult thing in life, my ans has always been the same: Finding a balance Comment from : mrtransmogrify

My parents never paid or gave physical rewards for grades The marks that were first looked at by them were about our behavior because they always said that was the most important Other parents couldn't believe they didn't have to pay us and we still had 39 GPAs That's because our parents had given us a consistent routine and expectations for school and once met we were free to do what we wanted with minimal oversight Plus once we were 5+ our parents checked in on the activities we were doing and whether we liked them/wanted to sign up for another year The only requirement was we had to complete the season/year we signed up for because we had made a commitment to that group/activity Comment from : pigpjs

Tom is relatable Comment from : Salman

I do believe balancing both is an ideal but most times one tends to override the other hence some people are more extrinsically motivated than intrinsically vise versa great video gives pure insight Comment from : Mr Cred

Extrinsic motivation is basically the Asian society, for kids before university at least Comment from : Wolfy

I wanted to go into accounting but my father told me to take biology and now I am in med school The experience right now is just uncertain I am starting to have second thoughts as my mind diverts when I am no longer around the books After my own assessment, I have to be honest at least for the readers of this comment, the decision to study medicine was more of driven by the social voices and the interests of my parents Despite this, I am very much satisfied when I quench my inherent curiosity and expand my mind through aquiring the information pertaining the inner mechanics around me It is like exploring a whole new system of pathways that I personally believe humans could never have progressed to design themselves Comment from : Daniyal Farooq

I am that boy Better for me but not for my mother Comment from : Period piece

I have been a Mira in my life Comment from : AK

Currently holding a Phd in motivation 🤌🏻 Comment from : bagya Aluthge

I’m like mira ): Comment from : Just Sarah 🌸

I am in this situation now Inshallah i can listen to myself Comment from : servant

2:00, 3:42 Nice ending The elaboration of opposites! :) Comment from : Self Elements

Gosh, i hate being a Mira because it feels like you are sentenced to a prison you want but can't leave Comment from : Cri Os

I listen to my heart and use society to get what I want in life Comment from : waterishardcore101

I listen to my heart, but I know how to appear to adapt to situations that societal “normalcy” Comment from : Nelly T

Dude that was dark, don't use this channel as your public psychology treatment Comment from : 444haluk

Did you just steal my identity? Tom is me lol Comment from : Brandon Ninja

Balance, balance in everything! Comment from : Anglaide

Is my smartphone broken? Comment from : Shoo S

now my life makes much more sense! Comment from : michel dang hong

This is so relatableI think this channel deserves much moree! Comment from : Drmrenal K

May I ask which app or website can make this kind of video, plz? Comment from : Changwa Yin

I'm all heart, but understand there are societal demands Comment from : Nicole theTrainer

I relate so much to Tom, still, I don't find not fitting into society bad Comment from : Noura A

Totally relates to mebut not very intelligent brbrAmazing work from the team Comment from : sanju bhargav

Wow this was a lot deeper than I thought it would be when I started the video Comment from : David Mills

Woah this is strange but meera is me at some points I was a topper in class, was admired by all my teachers and friends, I worked hard and got into a medical school butnow things are difficult I often wonder if this was the right choice? I can't go back and I guess I don't even have a choice At present I am in a state of chaos There is no extrinsic motivation left but I am in a process of finding myself, my intrinsic motivationbrThanks for this video I will try to bring a healthy balance between both extrinsic and intrinsic motivation Comment from : vk

This video is more focused on parenting and external socialization impacts on the child However, the balance also needs to factor in the child's preference by "congenital disposition" of personality for extrinsic verses intrinsic interaction Parents need to be flexible and adjust to what the child needs based on who the child is Children are not text book, one size fits all Comment from : Old Gray Beard

I knew I'm Tom type but my wife it Tom type too I can't say we are successful financially but I'm happy to be me Comment from : 芳春チャンネル

I'am both of them , i do not know what i want but i do no know what society want either ! Im out of touch with everything hhhh Comment from : flower miro

I can relate to the guy, who is out of touch and thinks most people are not living their honest life while I am living it being broke yet happy! I can see the problem now thanks ♡ Comment from : Wasim A Pinjari

My magic 8 ball says cannot predict now Comment from : Aj

Which software do u use for animation? Comment from : devi priya

summary : stoicism Comment from : Seafood seemun

Heart Heart Heart Comment from : Pranto Khan

Pls teach us , how to make video like you,brbrPls pls bring a tutorial Comment from : IAS pt 365

It's like introvert need marrying extrovert? Comment from : Ancyaahh Schmancy

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