Lessons from the Dying | Marie-Jo Cleghorn

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No honey, he wasn’t gone He was alive before his Savior You have learned that God will hold each one of us accountable for our words Forgiveness is the only thing that will set us free No matter what the sin against us is There is nothing that we can say, I refuse to forgive you God will hold us accountable for those too! Yes we are accountable Yes you have to be sure you are living well but you also need to be sure you are ready to meet Jesus as your Lord and Savior He will not care about your job You have the living part down But you need to work on the dying part Once you are no longer here you will immediately be in His presence The question is: are you going to stay there? Will Jesus welcome you into His kingdom or will he cast you into outer darkness forever? If you aren’t sure, I would pick up a Bible and start reading the gospel of John You don’t want to die and find out all of your good works were exactly that Works You can’t get into heaven on your work It must be Jesus’ work that gets you there
Comment from : @user-vm5ud4xw6n

Ehhgggg Bob Marley
Comment from : @winkstar9265

Tell that to the Pharmaceutical industry keeping people sick
Comment from : @winkstar9265

She's incredible Wow
Comment from : @kellyalonzi2917

In my 60s I've gone back to being self-absorbed brIts not fair to put the pressure on people to feel that we have to make a difference Not everyone is cut out for the same thing brThis talk is cathartic for this lady She's a bit of an actress Charismatic, egotistical, in her own waybrEveryone's time counts in different ways Don't let this talk make you, me, feel less than worthy
Comment from : @nicolarollinson4381

There is no way this lady is 50 years old!
Comment from : @sarasrandomz

We all make a difference Different ways and different levels We don't always know it Let it be for the good that isn't as easily defined as we might like it to be but that will be sorted out in the end
Comment from : @kingkornkarn6453

What an thought provoking talk So glad I got to listen to it
Comment from : @hilarypowell9802

They dont die, we die to ourselve, we change Everything changes when someone dies All around us In us
Comment from : @bryalee2782

A profound message; thank you
Comment from : @Bappa108

She’s hot for 49
Comment from : @fludeball

Wow😍
Comment from : @nenitaavan7506

🕊🇺🇲💕
Comment from : @cheryldodd-marko9787

should be watched by everyone
Comment from : @CDNBOBify

I just caught this TEDx chat and was moved by the insightful nature of your experience Thank you for sharing On a familial level I walked through the valley of darkness with my spouse as I slowly watched him succumb to cancer and was there when he breathed his last in the hospital It was a very difficult journey for the patient but as equally painful to let someone you love go Some say I am stronger because of the experience I say it was not my strength but my will and choice to stand by him as he slowly let go of life It taught me the true value of life and made me more keenly aware of how fragile we ALL are as we live and breathe I am so grateful for having had several family circumstances that called for patience and deep care for those less fragile than ourselves May we all learn to become more aware of our surroundings and value what we can contribute in kindness ThNk you for those moving stories
Comment from : @poppies1215

Thank you
Comment from : @aircando

Beautiful and comforting talk My 19 year old niece died in April She gave her all to her familyworried about everyone until she passed Rest in peace Natalia Ghaddar You will never be forgotten
Comment from : @bossdeman

A most profound and thought-provoking talk
Comment from : @lupitasoria4013

I had to listen to that ending twice, thinking id missed something, wondering - why is she saying oh wow?
Comment from : @solb101

Yo most important do you know the Good News? Carolyn didbr1 Corinthians 15brThanksbrEnjoy Our Creator !
Comment from : @richardmason7840

Did you make a difference? Great way to make me feel like a useless human
Comment from : @wanderswithdan

Why is nobody talking about how she doesn't look 50?!
Comment from : @konamichelle

This makes me want to simply die!brRecently someone asked me if I believed in the idea of “do good to others and good will come back in return” and at that moment I realized that I thought I did but no longer believe in that theory and explained that I KNOW I’ve done MORE good in my life than I have bad and yet no matter all the good I’ve done, I’ve had MORE bad in return Not saying I didn’t receive good because I did, but in my experience, the bad outweighs the good And I can’t wait to die and get out of here 😂!
Comment from : @goodstory5890

Incredible talk
Comment from : @tarawasinger

Awesome…🥰
Comment from : @kelligatenby7763

She looks so good for 50, a talk on eternal youth would be more popular
Comment from : @nigel4776

Thank you for sharing I know there are a lot of people hurting too Please know however, the continuation of life is also real indeednothing to fear and comforting to know, we'll experience the Light and Love of Jesus
Comment from : @jesusfan8504

🕊
Comment from : @VladyslavKurbatskyy

Incredible bless you
Comment from : @susanhowell6838

If I have written an inappropriate msg plz do consider the immense Pain my mother went through after 4 decades where she didn't wanted to pick a call from xyz 3 days later she passes away br🙏
Comment from : @tariqahmed7244

I nearly died on a few occasions as a child from a condition I was born with, I learnt these lessons at a young age and always felt different because of that, kinda too grown up for my age if you get that I now work in a hospital as a medical secretary in oncology and I hope I bring my empathy with me If you met me you'd think I was a 'messer' but I'm really a very spiritual/serious person
Comment from : @jkth4500

How could you have quite possibly been a selfish person if you were a Palliative care nurse!!!
Comment from : @newbeginnings1543

Uniquely beautiful woman! The way she speaks and moves is very attractive!
Comment from : @ketonesnotglucose4978

That's awesome you went on your day off! Kudos Nurse's rock !
Comment from : @margyritchie2702

You don't need to move so much
Comment from : @deltahunter2302

palliative care is the only branch of nursing i never did i left the profession with a heavy heart because there was rarely time to slow down and really be with someone and really listen being a hospice nurse seems really rewarding we all die and we live better by loving more deeply, and slowing down, and being kinder than necessary when we remember that
Comment from : @paradoxinmotion

"it takes very little energy to be kind"
Comment from : @paradoxinmotion

Marie the story is touching We all know will die but wait for death to embrace So truth said we should b true to our self Caroline left a legacy Thank you, bless you All your dreams come true
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Comment from : @hubertdecaro2152

This Ted talk woke me up big time I'm actually going to work at the momentspeechless
Comment from : @yasminbeatricebahaoui4697

Simply beautifulwell said💜
Comment from : @dynalynn8336

There is one thing I consider each day, 'Will this be the last thing I do?'
Comment from : @starfire3

50? She looks not a day over 30
Comment from : @andrewsomers1909

I am a nurse as well and this story had me in tears
Comment from : @melaniefoster4402

Only Jesus Saves from Sin
Comment from : @johnbartlett9568

Thank you for your wonderful message You shared what I have quoted at least one hundred times that my daughter who passed 52 days before turning 13 years old She taught me what a book could never teach me Keep Sharing your stories, they are lessons that we all need to hear, and most importantly learn from
Comment from : @susinpeterson1719

Thank you so much this helped us Mom lost her best friend and husband of 51 years my brother and I lost our wonderful dad on Thanksgiving 2020 from covid He was a very healthy 66 year old before this hateful virus My dad worked so hard for my parents retirement one he'll never get to experience :(
Comment from : @stephaniepowell231

I've been watching lots of Ted Talks on the dying recently I wanted to find some wisdom from the dying to learn how to live This talk was by far the most profound to me Thank you!
Comment from : @howisjason

A Beautiful woman with a ❤️ of Gold God bless her
Comment from : @michaelmcgirr3169

It's takes too much of emotional strength to be a Palliative care nurse
Comment from : @gargiethakur9529

Powerful, Thought provoking and Insightful! Thank You and God Greatly Bless You, Marie Jo
Comment from : @nanaabenahsakyi2946

50 what? Not years surely!
Comment from : @peterjones6733

I would not take a passenger on a motorcycle
Comment from : @thomasarbec7242

Thank you for sharing your lessons
Comment from : @user-sd6my7nv7i

I think she changed my life Muchas gracias por todo
Comment from : @yerkoignacioo

YOUR words and actions MATTER 💕
Comment from : @kristeandreatujague7016

Self reflection is an ongoing processbrbrIndeed 💕
Comment from : @kristeandreatujague7016

Love this! Well said Good things to hear Thank you
Comment from : @LaurensMuse77

Unfortunately I'm living in a terrible state of pain, addiction, and misery
Comment from : @amanitaocreata4401

Certainly doesn’t look almost 50! Great talk too ☺️
Comment from : @lynnomara601

Very good I love watching thank you xx
Comment from : @olwenpearson6960

Thank you very much May God bless you abundantly
Comment from : @yogindersikand5078

Marie-Jo Simply, Thank You for your precious insights and valued lifes lessons You make a difference and inspire me to strive to follow God bless you!
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Comment from : @lorrainehtucker9630

Shes 50?! Woof!!
Comment from : @marcsymons1553

I believe things come to us when we need it This is much needed and I listened, learned and will apply Thank you for one of the most enlightening talks I have seen You hit it perfectly and it has impacted me greatly You truly are a gift, thank you for your service
Comment from : @Wavdancer8

That was a great talk with a powerful message
Comment from : @jessiemarie636

Needed this now more than ever!!
Comment from : @iwnunn7999

Here Story does NOT ADD UP She said the day Gary died She was off And his wife called asked her to come over Thats the way I heard it
Comment from : @terrysmith386

No job will break your heart and also lift you up quite like hospice nursing The willingness to be exposed to the pain and death on a daily basis is an act of love Thanks isn’t enough❤️
Comment from : @toliveischrist950

Well that was fuckn depressing
Comment from : @4seasonsoffroad

I’ve noticed that many people who have had a NDE, there eyes all do similar closing movements
Comment from : @zachariahbedhair9598

I am completely blown away this woman has just helped me with my journey of dyingbrI am dying a slow painful trying death but I refuse to let it change me as this journey continues I will show the people I love the brave man I am and love them dearly both here and the after! May God bless you all always!!
Comment from : @drymoonproperties

I Love you 🌸🌷🌹
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🌸🌸🌸
Comment from : @vanessaprinsloo3841

Excellent honest testimony God bless you and your family
Comment from : @johnraju9816

Yes I get this! I have metastatic cancer and really do understand about living for the now and also using every opportunity to let my friends and family know I love them My one surprise in this is my increase in compassion for strangers I now like to talk to people on the train or bus Speak to people about about a variety of subjects I am now no longer worried if it is not considered the norm Being kind is easy and loving And it improves our communities I don't have time to be self absorbed I only have time to do my bit, here and now
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Comment from : @natad6599

The saddest thing is she never mentioned GOD!!!
Comment from : @chelgarcia8561

Wow This is one hot nurse I would loved to have had her nursing me during my health battle with the big C
Comment from : @philipswain4122

Marie-Jo, I love you and what you stand for
Comment from : @nicotopcat1188

What a quietly powerful and eloquent presentationshe is so right about everything A lot to take away from this talk, thank you
Comment from : @lunaazzurra7995

Makes me reflect on how I am livingThsnk you 🌹
Comment from : @elainebeard1320

A brilliant video 😀
Comment from : @hughtempleton8640

You do not need to be a nurse to SEEthe lessons of this life
Comment from : @bettyparodi4635

I had a heart attack and am sitting here in a ward with men in their 80s that are sick some are seeing birds on the floor and some are seeing children in the roombrThey have one foot in the next world I'm praying for them and am privileged to meet them as they are beautiful peoplebrIHOPE God is gentle with them when they go
Comment from : @sevenswords8781

I want MORE of myself I want more TO GIVE of myself!
Comment from : @razony

Sooo very spiritually blessed ! This dear soul is soooo very wise ! God bless you sweet ONE ! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Comment from : @trishaemry55

My boyfriend's dad is about to go in hospis This talk was very helpful Hugs to everyone that lost or is losing a loved one!!
Comment from : @hollykrueger6453

She walks around like those guys that tell jokes do The joke is on us
Comment from : @7316bobe

This talk by this wonderful lady will change my life forever Just lost my mum 2 months ago and now i understand Thank you
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