Learning to Forgive Ourselves

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Title	:	Learning to Forgive Ourselves
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God, these videos are not helping, I don’t know where to go
Comment from : Bushraw

Thank you
Comment from : Net Seb

I made so many mistakes in this life 💔
Comment from : Natalie Rand

Meh
Comment from : Asatsuyu Official

I can never forgive myself for what I did to my nephew 18 years ago I was 11 years old at the time and my nephew was 1 He was crying none stop and screaming and I ended up slapping Him on the face out of frustration 18 years later and I am 29 now and my nephew is 19 I still feel horrible thinking about what I did to Him He doesn't remember but I can never forgive myself for slapping a little defenseless toddler Everytime I think about it, guilt takes over me I will tell Him one day
Comment from : D 1993

So beautiful! I deserve limitless sympathy and compasion…
Comment from : Miguel Angel Martinez

Me: "What if this video was narrated by Alain?"
Comment from : Simoni

There is no self forgiveness
Comment from : sterling Gilliard

I can't do that until I've redeemed myself I knew better the whole time, every mistake
Comment from : Erich Wagner

This is so painful
Comment from : Lyra Jane

Tremendously helpful message
Comment from : Omeed Hadisfar

An excellent introduction as to why we humans suffer We are wired for it, unlike lower animals Thanks
Comment from : Darrell Borland

TY for video- v helpful-also important to ask for forgiveness if you have hurt/done wrong by someone from them and God, if applicable to you x
Comment from : LMC

If you have not forgiven yourself please pray to god to help you to forgive yourself for your past mistake Jesus said ask and you will receive, knock and the door will open, seek and you will find Please pray everyday I will pray for you
Comment from : Joyce Goes

Is it just me or is her voice soo similar to Emma Watson's ? 😍
Comment from : Mi Gi

Thank you I needed to remind myself that I am a beautiful soul and that I should lend myself some compassion ❤
Comment from : Michelle Padilla

Thank you! I needed this perspective today
Comment from : Heather Johnson

Thank you :)
Comment from : EmotionsCoachAdilSayeed

I am too hard on myself consequently, its caused me to hurt other people People i loved Ive never felt this much pain in making someone not want to be around me I want to be better I know it starts here
Comment from : ChonksPlays

i lost someone really meaningful to me, i left my insecurities & feelings get to me and lost a really great person, after months of loneliness i still just cant find the guts to just let it go or forgive myself its been hard man
Comment from : Cesar

I forgive myself 😞😞😞😞🙏🏼
Comment from : Kavin

Was wanting to see more solutions from this video informative but Yea
Comment from : David Lopez

We want your perspective on whether it's morally right to give birth Given the uncertainties of life; a sure-shot death at the end; miseries that have no upper limit (but happiness which definitely is limited); and no consent of the person who is being created (and since there is no consent, would assuming a yes is morally right or not?)
Comment from : Siddharth_vlogs

I suffered from a lot of emotional abuse when I was younger and because of that I’m way too self criticalbrbrI understand that we all make mistakes but nowadays no one is overly harsher on me than me
Comment from : Broken Man

“I messed up because I’m human”
Comment from : Greasy Hedgehog

in band camp there was a guy asking something about an f sharp in the music and i thought he said something anout a shark because my hearing is not the best and so i said what on like natrual instinct because its of one of the main words i say because i say it when i cant understand someone and thought they said something funny and if this trombone player sisnt look at me i probably wouldnt be wayching this video but yhen i got hit with a shot of guilt because i feel like i was questioning why he needs help and like ita stupid to ask for help I don't know how it affected me so much It wasnt even a big deal, its not lkke anyone remwmbers and nobosy brang it up and they didn't different around me after or anything Anywahs, sorry for ranting
Comment from : leequixie

Did someone with a English literature degree write this? There's words in there that I've never heard of
Comment from : Uncle Bob

❤️
Comment from : Vanshika Thakur

I love this video so much
Comment from : Cee Sims

Wow not even 2 mins in and this hits so hard It's literally me 😔
Comment from : Christopher The Conqueror

I needed to learn the hard way that life is not an exam, and there are no rights and wrongs it's so difficult sometimes to remember that thanks for the vid
Comment from : Julia Mansurova

I feel so guilty I really feel bad for what i've done Idk how to live and go with my life
Comment from : minda

Het is aantrekkelijk als iemand veel weet van emoties en eigenaardige kenmerken van mensen en hoe dat werkt
Comment from : Dunja

Ze springt meteen naar het punt, zelfmoord Dat is het beestje bij de naam noemen
Comment from : Dunja

Dit is zo waar Dit is belangrijk
Comment from : Dunja

Is that Emma Watson?
Comment from : Gagi Shaggi

WOWSomeone who finally speaks some truth about our existence!!!!! If I could add, our lives are 100 scripted here!!!!!
Comment from : Tom Major

Ouch This is about the most accurate video to me on this channel
Comment from : Land of Abundance

You forgive yourself your mindset, your thoughts, words and actions because you are in the world, restrained and blinded by the Ego (the guardian of individuality) You struggle bravely to adopt a more unconditionally loving way to think, feel and respond to every experience, but while you remain the single moving force within your consciousness, the Ego (the guardian of individuality) will eventually winbrbrYou forgive others the same waybrbrFor what is true forgiveness? It is the state of understanding yourself/others and your/their reasons for your/their behavior so clearly that you can say in all honesty - there is nothing to forgive
Comment from : Edgar Morales

Difference between regret vs self-hatred, guilt vs shame Regret n guilt may help us in the future, but self-hatred and shame may push us into no future (suicidal)
Comment from : BeMindfulMuslimah

Is this narrated by Emma Watson???
Comment from : Nica CT

This video encourages to compare to others, which is dsnsebfoi
Comment from : 323, martyr street

I am having regret for something that is years in the past that I didn't feel as bad about before
Comment from : Nicholas Brake

I needed this video, thank you so much
Comment from : Finance With Noel

Can i send you a message ;
Comment from : Ανδρομάχη Γ

I'm here to prove to myself that i am human I don't need to compare myself to anyone and i am in my own time doing what needs to be done for me❤
Comment from : Nathalie Duverna

I have character flaws I’m in a bad place but I will be better I know I will now
Comment from : Matthew Cooke

The sad thing is we don't have a temporary pause button in life to take a break from everything for a while to work on ourselves more in the face of some self-assessed unforgivable mistakes Sadly how a lot of people chose to press the permanent pause button to "reset" their livesbrbrMaturation is a painful process And the pain will be even more highlightened when you're in a foreign place, struggling a lot with all of your relationships or life prospects and solitude is the last resort you find yourself in brbrI never wish loneliness on anyone
Comment from : Đào Yến Ngọc

❤️
Comment from : Fatima G

Every day i reflect back to the decisions I took the last 3 years, decisions that took me to the failure i have become today and I just can't stop hating myself, once I start the self hate just doesn't let me function I need to forgive myself but it feels like my brain doesn't allow me
Comment from : Luciano radice

Thank you
Comment from : Shannon H

These guys are wonderful!!!@❤❤❤❤
Comment from : Abhijit Chakraborty

I have forgiven others but myself that's just a different thing
Comment from : Freedoms Quest

Thank you very much for this video 👍
Comment from : Farhad Niaz

Today I got in my frist car crash I’m so scared and I feel so guilty I’m so privileged and I know my parents will take the hit on this Though I didn’t do much damage i feel so guilty Both my brother totled their cars as well, I just needed a place to share I was on my phone and rear ended someone A few thousand in damages probably Everyone told me not to drive I feel so gully and bad
Comment from : mincraft cod

I have have done some weird things but I forgive myself
Comment from : AlbertMonty28

The moment i see my self as another person i realize that i was so toxic of an A hole to my selfim sorry
Comment from : M P

IN THERAPY I'M LEARNING, I NEED TO TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT ME3/3/2023br,SAYS, (*** DJDEBUSA***)😎😍🤗😘😘✍💖💖✍🎷🎧🎧🎷🎼🎶🎙🎙🎤🎙🔊🔊🔊💖📢💖🔊💖🔊💖😎😋😉😘
Comment from : Dj Bond

NEGATIVE SELF TALK ,USUALLY COMES FROM A ABUSER IN CHILDHOOD, TOXIC PREDATORS, TOXIC SIBLINGS, ETCbrVERBAL ABUSE IS USUALLY LEARNED FROM SOMEONEbr3/3/2023
Comment from : Dj Bond

We suffer more in our thoughts than in our reality
Comment from : quagmire

thankyouu
Comment from : yasmin

Thank you 😭 I have been on a slippery slope lately I'm downloading this video for when I am feeling particularly low
Comment from : Lindsay

♥
Comment from : Rupert Harrington

I remebered the scene from good will hunting "it's not your fault" 😂🤣
Comment from : Ahir Zaman Şairi

This didn't teach me anything about HOW to forgive myself Rather the opposite, when spending SO MUCH TIME explaining why we judge ourself I know why I judge myself BUT HOW DO I STOP AND FORGIVE MYSELF
Comment from : Sofia Bachmann Kristensen

I really wish it was this simple , I wish I could say this video help me but it didn’t I’m still struggling with forgiving myself unfortunately 🤦🏿
Comment from : Set Apart Tony 🙏🏿

This is one of the best videos I have ever seen on the internet, thank you ❤
Comment from : Ashley Irvin

I always enjoy these videos however I'd have used the word 'empathy' rather than sympathy
Comment from : David-Graham Parker

This video makes me cry Forgiving myself would probably be the best thing I would have done for myself My life has been going downhill for a long time because I never forgive myself for all my mistakes, which in turn causes me to make more mistakes I have not been able to move on from all those mistakes I don't see myself ever forgiving myself
Comment from : Suicide Is The Answer

This video only made me feel more stupid
Comment from : Tungst

Hear this😑
Comment from : Karen Holtzclaw

I’m afraid that “slipping up” and intentionally doing something wrong and harming another despite knowing better are two completely different things 🤷🏻‍♀️
Comment from : LorraElizabeth

Beautiful
Comment from : Thari c

Amazing! Thank you 🙏🏼
Comment from : TheScottish Cheez

If someone stripped you off your house dispossessed you, what would you do? brFile a civil suit and fight it out?brOrbrForgive that criminal and sulk in tears?
Comment from : android phone

I don't think I can forgive myself for my obnoxious past behavior I have reason to believe that ASD makes you stand out and apply to i"That's just wrong"/i That iwe're/i weird and different, not everybody in the world It feels that way at work for me Do you know how often I said dumb things? I stupidly mentioned a man’s right to hit a woman for self-defense, and a new coworker proposed a new topic And I know she doesn’t like me, because when I was casually chatting with a baker while waiting for the desserts, she entered and said “harassing the baker, John?” I asked why she thought that, and she said “Because you’re John” br brOr how about the time I told a coworker (whom I didn’t think would resent this, since he’s clownish and once made a weight joke to a guy) “put a sock in your àss I mean mouth” Shockingly, he actually did resent that and told me I can’t speak to him that way I didn’t intend harm; he had interrupted a question of mine to another worker to, if I remember correctly, playfully diss me I guess I was annoyed with the clownish interruption, but I didn’t mean for it to be obvious But when it was, I approached him and apologized But he replied unfairly: “you’re good, man You just need to learn how to speak to people” Way to make an apologetic person who already feels bad feel worse, hypocrite br brAnd a jocular dick giving me the lecture feels worse In fact, he's actually quite popular and well-liked at work I've seen him have fun and get along so well with my coworkers, while acting like I don't exist at all We pass each other in the hall or wherever, and he doesn't speak to me Of course, I'll admit that I started the silence, since his hypocritical rudeness that one time, but I don't know for sure if he's giving me the silent treatment or anything Either way, I'd say I'm not on his "good buds to joke with" list I know he likes my coworkers better than me Just the concept of being ignored hurts, and it doesn't help when they show admiration for the guy whom I think is obnoxious br brAnd that's not the worst part about my stupid ASD I was taken to my supervisor's office with her and a high-ranking chef They (or mostly the chef) told me that I've been touching my coworkers too much Not THAT type of touch, of course not! Just casual ones, like on arms or shoulders I was always very outgoing at work When I asked her if anyone reported a complaint, she said it didn't matter (so I assume that means yes) She told me that we need the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment, and that I pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school (I work at a university's catering service) She told me I shouldn't tell my stories because they may be inappropriate to my coworkers Now yeah, I pretty much don't have a filter, and sometimes I guess I do say inappropriate stuff at work, but not horribly nor intentionally I like to joke around and have fun with my coworkers, but I guess it isn't like that after all (more or less) I really didn't get specific information from the chef about what and who She understands and likes that I'm outgoing, but she made it sound risky and in need of limits, for good behavior and my coworkers' sake And again, that I shouldn't touch my coworkers (shoulders or arms) without their consent But seriously, I'm not a creep! I don't randomly hug people or anything like that I didn't mean to be so "handsy" (I say loosely) I'm so embarrassed about the office lecture I am not like Biden at all I'm really not Have I really gone that far at work? I already hate being on the spectrum, and sometimes I actually hate myself I kind of even wish I had been some kind of accident that day or the next, to make the boss and chef suddenly see the good in me and not see me as this obnoxious, creepy guy If a person I disliked was in some accident, I wouldn't care at all about their unlikeable moments, I would just want them okay If I EVER have a kid who inherits my disorder, I'm gonna do what I can to raise them right and as normal as an autistic person can be I won't let him or her make the same mistakes I have
Comment from : John Rainsman

I was mean to her I hurt her and she couldnt forgive me for it Now i have to live with the fact that she will continue her life without me because of me I was a fool
Comment from : Knowledge

Thank you
Comment from : Honey Sweet

I did something horrible to my ex-husband and he is so bitter I don’t have the chance to face him and apologize He wants to wipe me from his memory I am tortured by my past and cannot forgive myself It affects my relationship with others and I’ve lost my self respect 😢 I need counseling
Comment from : Cindy Church

I can't seem to move forward with my life due to going over the mistakes I made in the past when I was 10, 14, and 15 I have been told that this was all part of growing up by professionals, and members of my family I am 45 now but it haunts me more than ever Things have been done to me but that doesn't seem to bother me as much, and I don't know why that is ?
Comment from : Pete

Disgusting
Comment from : fight

Looked this up because i did a big mistake and ended up losing all my study notes Feels less enraged at myself now but still need to bear the consequences
Comment from : Lena X Deng

I beg my own pardon and forgive myself in return I also imagine everybody and everything beg my pardon and i forgive everybody and everything in return
Comment from : Fr V

Literally me ruined the day for my friend…
Comment from : Luis Flores

Not helpful,
Comment from : Reymart Bara

This is such a beautiful video! Thank you for making this ❤️
Comment from : Vaishali Mall

Thanks for posting this I need to hear this
Comment from : maxwestcomics

My ex girlfriend told me once when we were still dating “don’t be mean to my boyfriend” when I was self-hating and that just hit me right in the feels because it made me see how an oppressive part of me was beating down on vulnerable part of me
Comment from : Chumak TV

Forgive yourself because :br1) you didn’t know betterbr2) you are ignorant, everyday you’re learning something about yourselfbr3) you’re not perfect, stop beating yourself up cause you did a mistake(even if it’s the same mistake), you will make the same mistake twice and that’s okay cause it just means you haven’t learned your lesson yetbr4) You’re f*cking human
Comment from : Maria Mimi

I wish I could say this helped me like many here have, but while I understand everything that was said, I’m still unable to forgive myself There is no better tomorrow for some of us
Comment from : rat rat

Why are we here? Because we're here Roll the bones Roll the bones brWhy does it happen? Because it happens Roll the bones Roll the bones br We come into the world and take our chances Fate is just the weight of circumstances That's the way that Lady Luck dancesbrRoll the bones Roll the bones
Comment from : Thomas Daugherty