Why the Unfaithful Spouse Must Forgive Themselves

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Title	:	Why the Unfaithful Spouse Must Forgive Themselves
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I think I won’t be able to forgive myself ever for hurting him
Comment from : Nostalgic Magic

incredible video, thank you for calming my mind and giving me a path to follow as someone who is the unfaithful it’s hard to grasp where the self work needs to begin but i’m finding it easier to comprehend thank you for your work!
Comment from : Nika Grabareva

She forgave me but I can’t forgive myself I’m still with her but I don’t wanna make her feel that pain again the day I made a mistake is the same day I told her I will carry the words she told me on that day with me
Comment from : ShelovesSmalls

Sam how long did that reization take for you after disclosure My husband is stuck in that mode 24 years of marriage he filed in April it is unbearable to be around him
Comment from : D McV

I cant forgive myself for what ive done I was unfaithful to my girlfriend I mess up and i own it She still stayed with me Sadly shes not the same shes hurt alot Shes not the same anymore I blame myself everyday for what ive done I hate myself and i cant accept what ive done Everyday, i wake up hating myself and feeling disgusted with myself She told me she doesnt wanna talk about it and move on Its hard to forgive myself I cant forgive myself and i cant make the pain go away Im embaress of what i did Im trying to hard to fix her But i know she will never be the same Its like a car frame Once the frame is mess up, you can fix it but it will never be the same Maybe someday, ill forgive myself Maybe someday
Comment from : SomeCallMeVidal

I’ve been waiting for the person I’m currently with for 10 years I’m finally with her and a year into our relationship I was really messed up and started talking to another girl She found out the next day and I was just so angry at myself Being messed up is no excuse for infidelity I can’t seem to forgive myself for that :(
Comment from : Jaiden Sandoval

We are still together and she forgave me, but how can I forgive myself after what I have done, I told her everything after I did it, I have so much remorse and I feel disgusted, when we are together I have to pretend that I forgot and I’m having a good time again, but everyday I still cry because of my actions…
Comment from : joni loli

This is the best one on this subject It’s a girlfriend in my caseThank you 🙏🏻
Comment from : B Prathe

Mine will not forgive me I didn’t cheat but I lied I’m remorseful ashamed and embarrassed Why do some forgive and some don’t?
Comment from : B Prathe

This is so good I watch this not as someone who was unfaithful to a spouse, but who was unfaithful to God This is helping me
Comment from : Brenale Johnson

I will rewatch this over and over again until he sinks in First thought when my husband passed away 5 months ago was I WILL NEVER FORGIVE MYSELF” and I still haven’t it and don’t know when I will but thank you for this video I needed this more than you know
Comment from : Christine Ines- Juni

I didn't have a marriage when the occurrence happened We slept in different beds We had zero affection We were room mates
Comment from : Irving G

It’s being almost a year and I still can’t forgive myself, part of me is happy that she’s no longer with me because I feel she’s finally happy, but the other part of me is destroyed for not giving her the value that she deserved :( I feel I’m going to be like this for a couple of more years
Comment from : advicefromfather

Yes unforgiveness and shame keeps you stuck It keeps you chained to the bondage and pain and keeps you going back to the things that causes you the pain, keeping you in chains to your passed JesUS die for all your shame to set you free Choose His forgiveness and be set free You are worth it, and the ones around you deserve it to You are loved 💜✝️🌈
Comment from : Kim Ortega StrongWarriorBride

I'm praying for all who found themselves here hurting from the pain you caused the ones you love❤ This is no easy road to travel but there is light and lessons at the end of the tunnel❤ Praying for peace, love and forgiveness for us all🙏
Comment from : Mona Lisa

Do you have the link to part 1? Can't seem to find it
Comment from : just a sad dude, really

I feel like complete crap absolutley so
Comment from : Mitzy Basulto

So do they have to forgive themselves before they can say they are sorry? I haven't even heard that What if they don't understand why they did what they did and have a problem telling you how they feel or even understand the depth of hurt?
Comment from : John Vipond

I really hurt my partner by being unfaithful January 17th, 2021 would have been 6 years but we broke up January 1st I miss her dearly and wish I could take back my bad decisions I love her from the bottom of my heart She doesn’t want anything to do with me though All I can do is just be patient and learn to start the process of forgiving myself Because I really do feel like the worst person in the world When we had an argument she once told me I don’t know I worry you are a bad person at your core and don’t have my best interest in mind that broke my heart and it keeps replaying in my head everyday I really care about her and pray things workout
Comment from : Michael Medina

I knew I was largely healed when I experienced genuine sorrow for the pain of my ex wife Empathy for someone you've hurt is impossible until you no longer have an ego to protect
Comment from : Adam Roe

My guilt is drowning me in this cancer of pain and hurt I made such a huge mistake I'm so sorry I don't know how I can get past this How can I forgive myself
Comment from : Hatim Salman

Really needed this man
Comment from : Brandon Clements

I hate myself I can't escape from it! I hope if u see this in future, i just want to say I am sorry You always loved me I just want to say that i am sorry! I can never forgive my self I am sorry for giving you such a hard time 😔
Comment from : Swati Das

By the end of this video i was shedding tears, i’m more stuck than i thought and it doesn’t seem like i’m going anywhere or getting any better
Comment from : Lavless

I find it almost impossible to forgive myself
Comment from : BLB Boxing Gerardo Hernandez

I thought I forgave myself but how do I deal with my faults being thrown in my face every chance he gets It’s been three years since the infidelity happened I want to get through this but he is reminding me that it’s all my fault things aren’t as great as they could be I need help
Comment from : Nicole Kirksey

I hate myself I don't deserve anythingthis is gonna be a long road
Comment from : David Jon Burke

I hear you talk about people in marriages getting over infidelity but I don’t ever hear about people who aren’t married I’ve been in a five year relationship with my girlfriend and about 8 months ago I found out she was cheating on me with her boss When I asked her how many people she’s cheated on me with she said it was with 4 people and it goes 3 years back Am I supposed to just walk away since we don’t have any commitments like children or marriage? She says she’s changing and has been going to therapy and has had me go with her to couples therapy but I still just don’t know what to do
Comment from : Mr Sir

Am from Tobago and my husband needs a group to go in for help
Comment from : Linda Daniel

Hearing how mean Samantha was towards you after the affair makes me think that I’m just too nice!!My husband and I are going trough the same thing,but my husband isn’t trying to do anything to come towards me at all and I wish he would lol!🤷🏽‍♀️
Comment from : Sophia Cabais

I watch all of these videos hoping for help, and I appreciate the adviceI will eventually have to forgive myself Nobody addresses the hopeless unfaithful who is all alone in this shame when the spouse, friends, family don’t know They would die It’s like being all alone in your self-made hell and nobody can comfort you because you can’t tell My spouse thinks I’m so upset and depressed due to having to movebut it’s this I can’t forgive myself and nobody can help me
Comment from : suzee2